I'm sorry, but if you have ever said anything to me I don't remember what it was.
It's not that I didn't take it to heart, or that it wasn't important to me. It was. Trust me. Although, it makes me feel bad that I don't remember. I've been in so many affirmation circles on mission trips - you'd think that at least one thing would stick out to me.
Unless it was a short joke. I remember a lot of those.
But here is what I do remember:
I remember the way you made me feel. While the exact words don't come to my mind, I know the way you said things and they way you did things.
I remember how when I'm with the people who have impacted me the most how I feel important, special, and loved around them.
I remember moments of when we've laughed and cried.
I remember little gifts people might have given me.
I remember when people have helped me when I needed it.
Encouraged me when I was down.
Let me be myself without judgement.
Your words are important to me, and I soak in any sort of encouragement or affirmation that comes my way. So please don't take this as "don't ever compliment me because I won't remember."
But also don't be hurt if I don't remember the exact thing you said - because I remember other things you did.
Today's Prompt: Something Someone Told You About Yourself That You'll Never Forget (Good or Bad)
I agree: actions are remembered far longer than words
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